The first question that comes up for many people who have been told they have cancer is, "What did I do wrong?" or "Why me?" Because doctors don't know for sure what causes cancer in each case, many people come up with their own ideas about why they have the disease.
Some people believe they are being punished for something they did or failed to do in the past. Most people wonder if they did something to cause the cancer. Some think that if they had done something differently, they could have prevented the disease.
If you are having these feelings, it's important to know that you're not alone. Cancer is not your fault, and it is almost never possible to find out its exact cause. Focus instead on taking good care of yourself now, both physically and emotionally. |
